Please hel p me

Dear Sir/Madam,
I am 26 years old lady.I got married before 2 1/2 years.I have 1 1/2 years old son.I am working as an Admin & HR assistant . I am very emotional character.I feel sad for others.Thats my nature.

Let me explain about my husband.He loves his mom when compare to me.HE is not giving money to run the family.He is sending all money to his mom.We are living in UAE.I am the one to spend my money for my family expense.He never care about me & baby.I am very passion in my life.I love him lot.Financially i became low now.For this 1 1/2 years he doesnt spend even single penny to my baby.If i ask anything,he is beating me like an animal.I am spending all my monthly salary to Home rent+Baby expense + food expense.I couldnt even buy some things for me.

We are having sex for monthly once.HE doesnt like to have sex with me.Whenever he needs he will come for sex.He never kiss me daily.He doesnt like to kiss me.I request him many time.It will relax my mind.If you kiss me atlease once in a day .If i want to dicuss something , he doesnt hear my voice.He will tell dont disturb me.

He is very selfish in his attitude.I am low in mantally, hphysically & financially.

Please help me.What should i do.

Thanks in Advance.

He is a mama boy.Always obeying his mom.I am really confused who is his wife? .He is not sharing anything.Mom & Son are sharing everything.They are taking decisions own.

Its ok!My mother in law needs always money to roam all the cities.She used to wear make up & roaming in the car with my father inlaw in india.But here i dodnt have even money to buy milk powder for my baby.Mu husban is telling to quit my job & go back to india.If i go to my country , he will not send money.i feel scar for that.

Whether i should seperate from this useless husband or stay with him politely.Please help me.

Hi PureMother. I am sorry to hear you’re struggling, it sounds like it’s been a rough time for you and your husband. Have you talked with your husband about how you’re feeling? If so, please tell me a bit more about what he said….

Thank you very much Kathy.
Atleast you considered my mail.i waited for the reply .nobody replied me.
several times i spoken to my hubby. its uselss he never understsnd my feeling.he needs only money not my love.

he used to tell me . dont irritate me i want to be peaceful.how can i disturb him always/please tell me th e solution.

Hi Puremotherlove. Good for you working to support your baby. It sounds like you are feeling unsupported and alone right now.

Tell me more about your relationship with your husband. How did you meet and why did you decide to marry him? What did you fall in love with?

Tell me what your ideal marriage would look like.

Would your ideal relationship ever be possible with your husband?

Looking forward to hearing back.

Nova