HELP PlzZzZz

Hi all,

I have a girlfriend and she is so picky whatever I do she will pick o it. If I call her and showed her, I am caring, she keep telling me I am so annoying and she got board. If I do not care, I am scared that she will think I do not care.
She never mentioned anything good about me she always picking on anything I said or do and that is really hurting me A LOT …. I gave up a lot of things and I gave her everything she want to get and I’m always supporting her BUT she does not appreciate me .
Advice me plzz what to do I love her

Hello Isaah, a few years back I went through a similar relationship and it ended up rather harshly. The cold hard truth is that she either does not care for you the same way or she might be cheating on you. For me she was cheating on me and I found out the hard way. My advice for you, even that you love her, is to really take a deep breath and decide realistically if you really getting anything out of this relationship. Is it worth it for you to stay in this relationship if you are giving it your all, but not getting anything from it? I hope this helps you

jrp6048,

The problem is she is stuck in several problems family, study and work and whenever she is intense she does not want to talk to me ???????

Regarding if she is involve in another relation believe me NO ONE will be patience with her because she is harsh and if they get into a relation with her for couple of days or weeks then they will breakup with her for several reasons I cannot mention them ….

When she is happy she make me feel I’m a queen and even she keep telling me you have to control me ….. but when she is unhappy she is so rude sometimes. For example, yesterday she told me that I’m calling for any silly reason and even if there is no reason I will make it up huh!!!! Silly she people call each other if they miss each other and if I told her that she will send me straight face !!!!!!!!!!!

If I found out that she is cheating on me that will hurt me BUT you know I am totally sure that she will lose a lot no one will treat her like me and spoil her like me ….

For now I will ignore her and live my life the earth will not stop because of her even if I miss her I will NOT call her

She just told me that she showed her picture to another person and I asked her why she said its up to me

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You have the best attitude about this situation. I am a Christian man and when I was in your situation, I offered to pray with her and I knew that I was not meant to be with her when she said that she does not prayer. Holding your ground and letting her know that you are the best thing that has happened to her, will either show her that she cannot find someone better or she will decide to move on. I am praying for you and hope that everything works out. Sometimes those of us who are willing to give our all are the ones who hurt the most, but in the end, sometime down the road, you will look back and at least be able to say that you did the right thing for you. That is what is most important that you are taking care of yourself. I hope this has helped you in someway

jrp6048

Thank you for your supporting me through this difficult time … life is really strange you know I tried to help her in an issue and things does not work based on what she want she got upset and asked me to leave her even if she die what an attitude sometimes I doubt that she is an adult … OMG what she is expecting from me I’m doing my best while instead of appreciating me she is acting as if I’m the reason behind her problem.

Many times in situations like this, that person is so caught up in whatever is going on in their head that they are looking for the quickest, easiest target to blame. One of the hardest lessons, but the best, is that you have to realize that this is not your fault, no matter what they say. It sounds to me like she really needs more help than you might be able to provide, especially with the comment about leaving even if she dies. I hope that she will be able to get the help she needs and that you remember that this is not your fault and that you have and are doing the best you can

mmmmm I hope she can understand that I am willing to help her
she loves to be the one who is in-charge … you know i recognize that
being single is much peaceful time than any thing else

but what we can do this the live mmm

In my marriage my wife is the one who loves to be in charge and a problem we have found is that she wants me to start having me be in charge and she is not adjusting to it very well. Inside your girlfriend may actually want some help, but to her that may mean she has to give control to you and that terrifies her. When you go to try and help her, do not try to do too much all at once, but slowly do some small things and then as time goes on, do more stuff.